Posts Tagged ‘Relationships’

A,B,C People

13Oct09

Part of the process of taking your life to a Fabulous level is to evaluate the people you spend your time with.  It has been said that you become like the 5 people you spend the most time with.  I am sure you have noticed from time to time that when you leave a certain […]


Phew!  I just completed the task of transferring my blog posts from Blogger to my lovely new WordPress site.  Thanks for stopping by!  If you didn’t catch the post on the old site you’ll want to check out my website for the new ebook version of “Project Love Note” which began on my blog.  Next […]


Sept. 14, 2009 (blog post) It’s exactly at times like these when the going gets tough and people begin resisting change, that you know things are about to get really, really good. It’s the calm before the storm. You have new tools to cope, you have done a lot of healing, and you have a […]


9/14/2009 blog post Hello my dear, Ok, yes, I do recommend creating a little ceremony for yourself to move past the relationship. Remove all the photos or reminders of your ex in a ceremonious way. Play some uplifting music while you go through the stuff perhaps. Assemble it all in one area, put it in […]


9/14/2009 blog post Hey girl, One of the struggles it seems is self love. A great exercise is to write yourself a love note. Write all the great things you have accomplished, all the wonderful qualities you possess and all the promise you see in yourself. Do this when you are in the place that […]


9/14/2009 blog post Some days you do just have to let it go. Take a nap, be alone, cry, stare at the wall, journal, whatever you need for your soul. Sometimes we can let ourselves off the hook by doing this too much, thinking that we need it for our recovery, our personal development, healing […]


blog post 9/12/2009 Hey Girl, Ugh, what a week huh? This week was definitely me needing more support than you. We are both in different places in life with the recovery from our marriages but we are also in similar places just from transition. I see so much of my own struggles going back to […]


Sept. 8, 2009 (blog post) Hello my dear, Here’s something else for you to give some serious consideration to. Have you forgiven A. and have you forgiven yourself? It’s natural to go through the process of forgiving our abuser but what a lot of people don’t realize is that it’s just as important to forgive […]


blog post Sept. 8, 2009 Question from Susie: So, do you trust men now, Lesley? How did you overcome the issues so you could trust again? Yes, I do trust men. I realized that just because my ex was awful that all men are not. What helped was to educate myself on abusive traits so […]


Sept. 8, 2009 (blog post) “Whatever you want in life, other people are going to want it too. Believe in yourself enough to accept the idea that you have an equal right to it.” Diane Sawyer Hello my friend, I had to share this quote with you. I LOVE it. It really spoke to me […]